What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence, without a basic form and fixed outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The effect is often a fantastic physical, mental wellness. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Although the majority of touch will occur through the hands (or body to body) it is actually like that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly focused on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Loaded with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are totally present. Do not consider the other day or tomorrow. Do not browse or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. A really mindful touch from the heart. Get likewise really knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are in fact out of the question. Everything occurs in the moment, completely awareness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not meant (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. You never understand how it will end up. It is not the technique or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is crucial, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? What is excellent for her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, enjoy constantly has a proper action. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed. Sufficient is that the giver is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a very unexpected course. Whatever suits a larger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in happiness. A "failed" massage can be the initial step in an excellent development.
Ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a long time, obviously, however considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver always need to be ensured. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is likewise needed (read the post on guarding limits. So think beforehand (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries in advance: about mental borders, and also make sure for clearness about physical borders. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also entirely okay (though hard to deal with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have actually given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, but you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow freely
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually great, in some cases scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to completely delight in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have specific practices and strategies in common. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (aimed at healing).
Relaxation is an important part of tantric massage, however of an entirely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are very worn out), you are really alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research study or sexual satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a therapy! It's a kind of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage definitely has healing effects, but that is not an end in itself.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the short article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, Tantric massage but also mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need complimentary, do not press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in combination (rest) minutes.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about exactly what they themselves discover pleasant, fun, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "requirements", keep away from your own issues and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is required! Once again, don't try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Maybe you are disappointed when someone falls asleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No designated outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can come up.
* Look out to restored freezing minutes. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and offer integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing impact. It is possible that blockages, emotional injuries pertain to the surface. There might be a psychological release, including physical responses such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you learn what it is like to love yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).